Hi All:-...
The other reason ive not been in for a while. Despite thinking i dont give a monkeys chuff for her. Daughters not been to well, blood in her loo.
Been to doctors on and off for a couple of weeks now!!...
They thought it might be a bleeding ulcer...Then gallstones, Now its decided time for the camera??...
Find out whats really is going on!!...
This morning Sunday 22nd august we were in the kitchen when she said she was so relieved her appointment was nearly here!!...
As usual i put my size ten in it!!...
I asked her if she was worried at all??...
I then said about my friends dad, never ill. Worked 6 days a week for donkeys years. Self employed builder, started to feel unwell. Told his wife didnt feel right would take couple days off...then back to it when he felt better??...
They had a great life!!...Money, foreign travel twice a year, new cars and a decent sized house...they had more than most...especially for a self employed builder!!...
Wasn`t getting better, usual story off to doctors...tests...tests...tests
eventually hospital. No cameras in them days, into hospital cut open throat to navel...his body full of cancer.
They basically sewed him up, sent him home to die.
That he did just a couple of months later!!...
I was merely trying to point out that some lifestyle changes were in order. She, Claire got hold of the wrong end of the stick...As usual!!...
I was only trying to explain about takeaway food having added salt and stuff...She went into one. Ive not had take away lately!!...
When i worked it out, she had eaten out six times in less than two weeks!!...
She said "Salad and sandwiches are not take away??...
Now:-...Correct me if im wrong here...but would the definitive meaning of takeaway mean "something not eaten at home...as in "Taken Away??"...
Usual row ensued. It seems we dont know how to communicate properly anymore!!...We must have done once upon a time though, surely??...
She is quite a bit overweight see...and as far as im concerned, I`m a concerned Parent!!...
Claire on the other hand thinks,
"I keep on and on at her-and for no good reason"!!...
Theres another sticking point...
Is concern a reason??... Or is it interfering??...
The facts are:-...
She`s had an internal bleed!!...
She`s about eight/nine/ten stone overweight!!...
She doesn`t really do any exercising!!...
It`s buses, buses, taxis...taxis TAXIS!!...
What happened to walking??...
She never wants to take her kids to the park!!...
She does very little house work!!...
So my question is as a concerned parent, worried about diabetes, being overweight not exercising.
Grandkids being without there mum. Then every parents worst nightmare..
"Burying your child"!!...
Am i infact
"Being Worried...or Paranoid"!!...
"Concerned or Annoying"!!...
"Criticizing or A Complete Ass"!!...
I am seriously thinking of starting a F.A.C.T. blogg...
"Fathers Against Confrontational Twentysomethings!!"...
It would be a place where not only dads but all parents to vent there concerns about there childrens health. Right from eating disorders, smoking, drinking far too much!!...
There would be free guides...free advice. Of course the solution wont be free.
A diet guide book for instance might be £20-00...but if it would save your life!!...
Ive already tried to offer these actual books and cds to my daughter. She says, She`ll read them when shes ready!!...
I know:-..."You cant force some one to do what they dont want to do"!!..., but, You can offer advice...and listen!!...
There could be a "Twentysomethings response area". Maybe an area where professional people could be asked to comment. And of course the "Concerned Parents Questions"??...
Seriously:-...I`m thinking of starting this??...
Till the next time. ...
"May your success be far more than you expected!"
David.
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